Five signs a tarot reader says your past is trying to call you back
Kerry King, a 30-year tarot practitioner, outlines specific psychological and energetic indicators that suggest a former partner or friend may be preparing to re-enter your life.
By Beatriz Soto ·

Kerry King has spent three decades reading tarot cards for clients seeking answers about their past. She says she sees a recurring pattern when people visit for sessions about ex-partners or old friends. The cards often point to a reconciliation or a final moment of closure. King notes that the past has a habit of resurfacing at unexpected times, sending signals that clients often miss until they consult a reader.
King argues that thoughts carry energy. When a former associate is thinking about you with intensity, that mental focus can manifest as tangible events in your life. She cautions that not every old song on the radio or vivid dream guarantees a reunion. However, she identifies five specific signs that suggest a reconnection is brewing. These indicators range from subtle environmental cues to strong internal urges.
The first sign is a surge in synchronicity. You might hear the person's name in conversation, smell their distinct fragrance, or spot a lookalike. You may also find that films or songs they loved appear frequently in your environment. King explains that this is partly psychological. Once you notice these reminders, your brain becomes primed to detect more of them, especially if you shared a long history of experiences.
Vivid dreams of the person constitute the second indicator. These dreams often leave you waking up with the same emotional state you held during the sleep. While some view this as a psychic connection, King suggests it may also be your mind processing unresolved questions. She advises clients to examine the specific emotion triggered by the dream, whether it is relief, anger, or sadness, to determine if they need to seek closure themselves or reach out to the other person.
A strong, unexplained urge to contact the person is the third sign. In psychic practice, this is known as intuitive knowing. It feels like a command to act without external reason. King warns that this can be mistaken for intense nostalgia. Before sending a message, she recommends pausing to assess your true motivation. You must also respect any previous boundary of no contact, regardless of how strong the urge feels.
Unexpected events that bring the person to your attention form the fourth sign. This could involve finding a photo while cleaning, hearing news from a mutual friend, or a specific song playing at a precise moment. King describes this as an uncanny experience where the universe seems to be conspiring. She suggests looking for a wider pattern rather than fixating on a single coincidence. This is often a time to consult a deck of cards to explore the deeper meaning of the coincidence.
The final sign is a lingering feeling that the relationship is unfinished. This is a common reason people seek readings. The feeling is particularly powerful if the relationship ended suddenly or without clear explanation. King notes that unfinished feelings do not always mean unfinished business. The signals often indicate that you are not entirely done with the relationship emotionally. She often recommends writing a letter to the person and never sending it. This helps clients process their feelings and realize they are already further along in their healing than they thought.
King concludes that the past can be sticky, but it is not a place to linger. While these signs may indicate a desire to reconnect, they are not proof that the other person will return. They are primarily signals that you need to review your own emotional state and recalibrate your perspective on what happened.





